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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

::Deep Cuts::






Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me....

yea whoever made that one up is going to hell...what a lie. words do hurt...alot... and I dont know one person who would say it never hurt them at least one time in their life.

I always knew there was a reason why I did not really care for too many people in my life...most of them are seasonal and a few stick around til the end...NO MATTER WHAT.


I love the relationship I carry with my fiance...Im his bestfriend and he is mine..Im down for him with anything...somebody hurts him I feel like i was his shadow. Things are coming up with us and Im very blessed with that. Now, we are not perfect at all..I know i make mistakes but what would the world be if everybody was perfect. I dont come off to hurt anybody at all...so i think that if people feel that they were betrayed or hurt by another friend..why not use that word we call COMMUNICATION.. thats very important in any kind of friendship...get to the bottom of things and in the end if they still feel they dont want anything to do with that person u can walk away knowing at least u brought it all to the table and there is nothing left to do. To talk to somebody u gotta be ears and mouth not just one...then that turns into a one sided argument. The future comes one day at a time...and u cant change the speed of that...If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it change your attitude....and don't complain after. Somebody once told me "He that will not apply new remedies must expect new evils". WOw...very true people. I came to alot of points in my life when i had to change just to save or Cherish something I want to keep..and i dont think anything is wrong with a little change...When your through changing..you are THROUGH.. take it for whats it worth...Change is the rhythm of living....Think to the beat! Any change even a change for the best is always followed by drawbacks and discomforts. We all have big changes in our lives that are more or less a second chance....So go for it.. god bless and for the friends I lost...I wish you the best in Life.

P.S. Onnn another noteee here are some pics for the photoshooottt enjoy......

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9 comments:

Da Hunni Toya said...

words do hurt shoot..lol
and yes change is always good...

awwww yall look so kute together!!

I AM NIQUE said...

Words are the most powerful thing in the world. If there weren't any physical weapons in this world words would kill mankind. Nellz your my new homie, because you see the world the way I do you realized that life is what you make it and it will never be perfect, your emotional because your a mother and a women, like me you stand by your man not in front of or behind but next to, you love his greatness and his imperfectness and that's traits of a real women. From reading your entries I see that you know yourself and you see your future and thats one quality a lot of women don't have yet, keep your head up momma, because you show true qualities of a Nubian Queen, you might not write a lot on here but when you do it sums up a lot on life.

Keep it Funkiie

-Nique

Day Dreams of a PYT said...

Hey Nelly Nellz...lol...Diggin the pics u go girl :-D

Melody.Darlene said...

love that marilyn quote and love the pix!

Ashley Outrageous said...

your quote about change & how its a rhythm was soo deeeep. loved it.

Teems said...

Gurrrrl…You ain’t never lie! lol

I agree. Reading this post was like reading my life and views on life and friendship today. I share that same bond with my Fiancé and its great to see someone else with that connection.

Great blog. I shall return!

Teems

Minnie said...

I have learned to be thankful for the friends I do have....like you of course. Sometimes we need to let go of the old and move foward with the new...

TURBO said...

Yo I love u mama, true story, you are the one and only girl that tamed YoungTurbo and got me in a bag...and ima do what i gotta to keep that smile on ur face, bet your life on that. I think ull look betta wearin my last name...lol..Mrs. YoungTurbo lol..like that.

YOUNG

ill;kinda said...

nice photos